The earlier you rise, the better your chances of shaping the future you desire. The truth is simple and sometimes harsh: no one is coming to rescue you.
For too long, we’ve been conditioned to believe that the government or society is responsible for solving our problems. While it’s true that leadership should create an enabling environment, your personal growth, success, and happiness are entirely your responsibility.
The fact that your environment doesn’t look like what you envisioned is not a valid excuse for not improving yourself.
No one owes you anything in life — not even your parents. Yes, good parenting plays a vital role in shaping us, but even if your parents failed to provide a strong foundation, it’s your duty to build one for yourself.
You can’t blame your background forever; at some point, you must stop pointing fingers and start making moves.
You can make all the excuses in the world, but remember this powerful truth: EXCUSES EXCLUDE PEOPLE.
Every time you justify your inaction, you disqualify yourself from progress. No matter how genuine your reasons may seem, they are not enough to stop you from becoming the person you were destined to be.
This is your life — you are not reharsing for someone else’s. You have just one shot at it. The choices you make daily will determine the quality and direction of your life. Don’t live passively; don’t leave your destiny to chance.
Life will test you. There will be pain, setbacks, and moments when quitting feels easier. But remember: you cannot become a victor without facing a battle. Every struggle refines you; every challenge prepares you for the greatness ahead.
And even in your darkest moments, when it feels like there’s no way forward, trust this — God will never leave you stranded.
There will always be a spark of strength within you, a divine push that reminds you that you can rise again.
Take responsibility for your life. Wake up early, stay disciplined, and commit to growth.
Your independence is not just about finances or freedom — it’s about mindset, discipline, and accountability.
You have what it takes. I believe in you.
Felix Odukanmi